If You Met My Family, You’d Understand takes a complicated subject, family systems theory, and makes it easy to understand. It will teach you how your family of origin influences your thoughts and actions, and how awareness and intentionality can help you to find new, more healthy ways of being.
Jack speaks to those desiring a deeper life; marked by authentic relationships, integrity of self, and grace in disagreement. Rooted in Family Systems thinking, and supported by honest, personal storytelling; this book calls forth courage to embrace challenges and imagine possibilities for our lives. My students love his clear style and playful delivery.
Rev. Gina Gilland Campbell, Wesley Theological Seminary
Rev. Shitama has written a valuable resource for anyone interested in developing one’s self and understanding relationship systems. This is a clear, accessible view of theory with practical examples, and application to self, family, or any relationship system. The book provides rich soil for one’s growth.
Myrna Carpenter PhD, APRN, The Center for Family Process
